The Holy Bible book of Romans chapter 12 verses 6-8 discusses the spiritual gifts that are within us. It is up to us to pray for these gifts, believe they are available, and build a personal relationship with God in order to bring forth these gifts. Coming to church and talking to one of the ministers may help you to begin your own personal spiritual path.
So many people don't understand the concept of "spirit". It is simply our energy living on after our physical body passes away. That's why many people refer to death as "passing on to the next life" or "crossing over". Many do not believe in life after death. But even science tells us that energy never dies...it only changes form!